Dear Mr. Farah, you can use all the linguistic gymnastics you, want but in the final analysis you cannot escape the fact that Jesus is God and that Mary is the Mother of Jesus, so therefore Mary is the Mother of God ["Is Mary the mother of God?"].
With all due respect to you exegetical prowess, many theologians have pondered this long before you were born, and they have come to the same logical conclusion. There have been many battles waged over this question. Ecumenical councils have been called to study it. In the end they concluded that you cannot say that Mary is the mother of Jesus without at the same time saying that she is the Mother of God.