I find it ironic that those who claim to be enlightened and open-minded, at the same time attacking conservatives like me as bigoted and close-minded, refuse to engage me in debate or dialogue.
There was a gay Jewish leader I interacted with on Twitter. He made some bogus claims about God having multiple genders in the Hebrew Scriptures, and when I asked him for one single reference, he could provide none. (But all the while, he kept mocking my position.)
When he attacked my viewpoint a week or two later, I invited him to join me on the air to debate the issues, since he claimed I was misrepresenting ancient Jewish sources. (I told him that as a practicing homosexual, he was violating the Torah.)
He said he would not come on the air to increase my platform.
I replied to him that, by God’s grace, I had an excellent platform already and was inviting him to join me on that platform.
He refused.
I said to him, “Then how about we talk privately, off the air, by phone?”
Silence.
But I wasn’t surprised. This is the kind of thing I’ve become used to.
A few years ago, after I was on Piers Morgan’s show and got into a lively interchange with Marc Lamont Hill, we interacted briefly on Twitter.
Would he like to have a formal debate with me on the issues we discussed?
He expressed openness to do so, and I said let’s do it.
Silence.
Not a word of interaction from him since then.
Then there was Montel Williams.
He responded to my “Open Letter to Megyn Kelly,” which referenced a segment they did together, and then I wrote a response to his response. After this, his assistant and my assistant interacted. We were told he would be happy to join me on the air and have a friendly debate about our differences, but only after he took care of some family commitments, which would run into the next month.
That was almost one year ago now, and we’ve not heard back from his team since then.
Just silence.
This is a recurring sound.
Then there was the liberal university professor writing for Huffington Post who stated expressly that she wanted to talk with white, evangelical Christians who voted for Trump.
I wrote a long response to her article, saying to her throughout, “Let’s talk.”
I tweeted to her before and after writing; I linked my response to her; and my office reached out to hers privately.
Silence.
And remember: The purpose of this professor’s article was to find someone like me willing to talk with her. Yet when I reached out to her, she never replied. Not even a, “No thank you.”
Why?
Then there was gay journalist and radio host Michelangelo Signorile.
Also writing for what is now called HuffPost, he referred to conservative Christians who opposed redefining marriage as “religious extremists,” to which I wrote a reply titled, “To Gay Journalist Michelangelo Signorile: Let’s Have A Civil Debate.”
Here’s how I closed my article:
These are critically important issues facing our society, and we both agree that they are not going away any time soon. Why don’t we have a civil, public debate and discuss these issues in a moderated forum, hopefully doing so in a way that will further serious discussion and reflection in the midst of our differences, committing to conduct the debate without vitriol or histrionics?
You just wrote a new book titled “It’s Not Over: Getting Beyond Tolerance, Defeating Homophobia, and Winning True Equality.”
I just wrote a new book from the exact opposite perspective, titled “Outlasting the Gay Revolution: Where Homosexual Activism Is Really Going and How to Turn the Tide.” (To be clear, when I say the exact opposite perspective, I do not mean cultivating hatred or mistreatment of gays; to the contrary, I call on my side to take the highest moral ground and merge love together with truth.)
You have a national radio show, and I have a national radio show. In fact, it appears that from 3-4 p.m., EDT, we’re on the air at the same time, Monday-Friday.
You write columns for liberal websites, and I write columns for conservative websites.
What is there to lose by challenging each other’s views publicly while we defend our own? What is there to lose by seeing whose positions best cohere morally and socially?
I then tweeted him a link to my article, asking him, “What do you say?”
He replied, “Nothing to discuss. We’ve gained our rights. NOW you want civil discussion, after you crusaded vs. us for years?”
I responded, “My position has remained the same for years. I’ve always called for discussion. In any case, we’re not going in the closet.”
He replied by sending me an article written by two of his gay colleagues, referring to people like me as bigots. (My response to their article is here.)
I asked him why he and his colleagues had to use the word “bigot” when referring to opponents of same-sex “marriage,” since there were perfectly legitimate, fair-minded reasons for rejecting it. He responded by justifying his use of the term, after which, there was that sound again – the sound of silence.
Here and there, I’ve found leaders on the “progressive” side who are willing to engage in civil debate or dialogue. (And remember, I’m not just talking about coming on my radio show, where I do control the mic, but of participating in formal, moderated debates.) But they are few and far between.
All too many seem much more willing to make charges than to back them up, to level accusations than to discuss honest differences, to throw around claims of bigotry rather than have their own bigotry exposed.
Their silence, when challenged, or when invited to public dialogue, is deafening and speaks volumes.
I dedicate this article to WND on its 20th anniversary. You have been anything but silent.
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